Harry Jowsey sent her private DMs with Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star Jesse Draper following her allegations that her husband had divorced her Jordan Ngatikaura he once accused them of having an affair.
I Perfect Match star, 28, responded to Jessi's bombshell interview on the Wednesday, March 25, episode of the “Call Her Daddy” podcast, in which she said Jordan, 31, once accused her of cheating over a seemingly innocent birthday exchange.
In response to a fan asking him to leak DMs, Harry laughed in a TikTok video on Wednesday, “Okay, here we go!”
He played a series of voice messages he appears to have exchanged with Jessi in May 2025 after discovering they share the same birthday.
“Hello, twin of the day, what are you doing, crazy girl?” Harry asked in one message.
Jessi, 33, replied: “I'm dying, that's funny. But I think you're a lot younger than me so I'm jealous.”
The Hulu star shared that she was spending her birthday at a spa and Harry said he had planned a hike and a massage for his special day.
“Just taking it easy. I'm not trying to be a naughty boy anymore,” he teased, Jessi replied, “I hope you relax and have a great birthday and do something fun tonight.”
Jessi doesn't seem to mind Jowsey sharing her DMs, as she replies “rawr” to his TikTok video. He Mormon wives the costar Chase McWhorter he also teased the drama in response to Harry, laughing, “I can get a voicemail on my birthday smh.”
Earlier in the day, Harry shared his disbelief that he's “always at the scene of the crime” whenever there's a pop culture controversy.
“Guys, is this all my fault? … I'm trying to have a normal day and a normal life and not have drama because I'm not good at it,” he joked about TikTok. “For some reason, I'm at the scene of every crime!”
Harry complained, “My presence has caused a bit of trouble [Jessie and Jordan’s] relationship because we were saying happy birthday to each other.”
On Wednesday's “Call Her Daddy” podcast, Jessi shocked the host Alex Cooper suspecting that Jordan once accused him of cheating with Harry.
“[Harry and I] have the same birthday. So, last May, Jordan and I were separated. I answered Harry's [Instagram] And the story was like, 'Oh my god, birthday twins!' You miss me. Like, do you know how to speak? … He's like, 'How's your birthday going, you naughty possum?' I said, 'Good! I'm going to walk.'”
Jessi insisted that the quick birthday exchange was the full extent of their DMs, but Jordan reportedly called her later for clarification.
“I'm in Europe,” Jessi recalled on the “Call Her Daddy” podcast. “I get a call at 4 in the morning from Jordan. He's like, 'Do you have to tell me something? I was like, 'What do you mean?'
Jessi accused her ex of “cheating[ing] My Instagram while we were apart [and he] he created a fake phone number to send himself a voice.”
“[The fake account wrote]'Dude, I think you should know about this. Your wife is cheating,'” he said, “He accused me of cheating on him with Harry Jowsey, he said it was someone else, then I found out it was him. That was all. The audios were very pure. “
Jessi told Cooper, 31, that she finally changed her phone number because Jordan also “tracked” her whereabouts and listened to her private conversations through security cameras in her home.
Us Weekly reached out to Jordan and Jessi for comment.
The latest drama comes after Jordan filed for divorce on Thursday, March 19. He sought a temporary restraining order (TRO) against Jordan but his request was dismissed by a judge on Tuesday, March 24.
Jessi and Jordan have two children: son Jagger Teina, 5, and daughter Jovi James, 3. Jessi is also stepmother to Peyton, Jordan's 13-year-old daughter from a previous relationship.
